You’re a Mean One, Mr. Grinch. [December 21st, 2010]
There was a time, when the last few weeks of the year meant more than this. More than the mobs. Their Credit cards in their clutches like yuletide pitchforks. With well-wishes aplenty, and threats of bodily injury at the ready for any who get in the way of their bargain-bin rampage. There was a time when the end of the year meant more the last minute assignment(s). Weighed about your neck like an albatross. The ones you accepted with the grace of a sailor who’s been asked to walk the plank at knife-point…as if he had any other choice. If you had other ideas, the incessant jingles will remind you. Ah, the season for begrudging holiday cheer. As if any of us ever has any choice.
When you were younger, you waited with baited breath for the tangible things. The ones encased in boxes and bows, while your heart bristled with more electricity than the synthetic tree the presents lay under. Now, you know better. Somehow “knowing” things, hasn’t made things any better has it? Many of us still pine for the joy that can only be procured through the magic of retail therapy. There isn’t necessarily anything wrong with that. But this time of the year should mean something more. Maybe you’ve looked at the people around you, and wondered what there is left to believe in. There’s a good chance the stranger next to you is looking at you and wondering the same.
The other day, a single mother dropped her son off at my local barber shop. She looked overwhelmed, and late for something or the other. He just looked happy to be there, and thrilled at the fact that he’d soon be a presentable member of society again (a fresh line-up is essential during the holidays. and pretty much at every other time too). In a rare moment of humane weakness, I got out of the chair after my cut, and gave my barber a little something extra to cover the kid. “Tell his Mom someone said ‘Merry Christmas’” I whispered to him, as I walked out the door. You’re a mean one, Mr. Grinch. But if there was ever a time to make a stranger’s holiday season a little more magical, it would be right now.
Happy Holidays, Guys.
Photography: 12 Rnd + Shoes: Gaziano & Girling + Sports Coat: Astor & Black + Watch: Tissot + Shirt: Made Tailor + Pants: Panta + Driving Cap: J.Crew
Where are those gloves from? They look pretty fantastic and unencumbered by labels and other adornments.
Hi. I get asked about those gloves a lot. Unfortunately I picked them up in Japan, so they aren’t readily available Stateside. I’ve seen similar pairs floating around on the interwebz. Next time I see a pair, I’ll post them up.
Well, actually thats more convenient then you think. Ive been living in Taiwan for the last 5 monthes.
Ha! In that case, if you’re anywhere near Osaka, swing by Hankyu Men’s. I think the glove is part of their house brand since it isn’t labeled otherwise.
Ah yes, ice cold my man woe is you! Ice cold like the weather. Invertebrate like the snake, and ice-cold blooded barbershop serpent. A wonderful production of the self. But I hope there is room underneath that sportcoat for the heart to grow three sizes that day!
Hi sir I’m new on your site & I have to say that your execution in fashion are sick men!
By the way your English is so excellent! were can I learn that type of freestyle my brother?
Just a mere product of Nigeria’s finest public schools. Thanks.
This is Phatty level. Easily.
Deets on scarf?
A noble deed for the boy to follow…and men alike.
Mr. Goodwill Hunting
That coat is awesome! I love peak lapels on single-breasted coats. Why should double-breasted coats get all the fun?
Yeah, I can’t even lie. It might be my favorite piece right now. It’s admittedly a little snug, but I really appreciate the fact that it dresses down easily as well.
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This is a very brilliant use of color. Nice gloves wale.
Doin it cool.
Wale – your styling is wonderful as always, however, I would ask your A+B rep to have the waist of the coat let out as it is pulling significantly and the vents look as if they do not fall flat in the rear shot.
As well, you may want to consider lowering the buttoning the point on your future projects, I find this one a bit high and the skirt of the jacket flares a little too much as a result. I think it would improve the proportions of the jacket if it was a bit lower.
Happy holidays to you and yours.
Ah. I was waiting for someone to bring this up. You’re right. There’s a little too much pulling, and perhaps too much waist suppression. It’s rare for an MTM piece to come out completely perfect. A little tweak here and there and it should be good to go. Thanks for the suggestions.
A true gentleman with style for days.
This is honestly some of the most amazing writing ever. I don’t even know what to say besides that. Just…amazing. Woe, you’ve outdone yourself.
cool ish, bro
good stuff. i noticed the big knot you used for your tie which is completely appriopate for the collar but there has been a lot of hatin’ on the windsor knot of late. i found it odd initially since that was the only knot i knew how to tie since i was in jhs (double windsor in fact) some time ago and it has always served me well. i was always able to make it as big or small as necessary. although in the past year or so i’ve taken the time to learn a number of other knots but still have a soft spot for the windsor so thanks for rocking it proudly. =)
You’re gonna be pissed when you see that single mom in Forbes. LOL jk nice ensemble although I do agree the jacket is a wee bit snug. Still better that 2 sizes too big.
Gloves and shoes on point though. And I really need to pick up a pair of Panta trousers….
I enjoy viewing your sense of style and reading your viewers comments, I’m a 41 year old gentleman that has been custom tailoring & designing mens fashion for many years. I’am amazed to see so many young men who don’t have their own “point-of-view” of style. Let me explain many gravitate to what’s being offered. For instance buying Ralph Lauren POLO take on mens wear,many equate quality with a brand name. The currency spent for the garments that Ralph Lauren produce are astronomical when compared to having something “custom made” not just shirts-but suits,blazers,trousers and vest. Someone commented on how fitted your blazer was,however everyone today has followed the trend of wearing clothing that doesn’t fit “proportional correct”, Keep up the good work and if you can incorporate more “custom made” clothing on your Blog.